I'm not married (so I can't relate to that aspect), but...do you really want to be married to someone who makes you feel this way? You sound miserable and downtrodden about it all. Is this really worth it for you? Does this relationship have any saving graces? Maybe you would be writing more if you had some actual support from the person who's supposed to be your biggest cheerleader (besides yourself). I'm sorry if I seem extreme in what I'm saying, but...you have to take yourself into consideration, especially since all he's doing is counting dollar signs in his head and lording it over you when you "fail to meet expectations."