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Guys, You Need a New Strategy When You Talk to Women

You’re not as suave as you think you are.

Jillian Spiridon
7 min readNov 10, 2022

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I think there’s a glitch in the system of our society.

Somehow, some way, it seems that men and women are growing farther and farther apart as far as ideals, standards, and expectations when it comes to building relationships.

Or maybe I’m just looking through a murky glass. I don’t know.

But I do notice something whenever I’m out with friends and I see the way men interact with women.

Nothing seems genuine.

Men and women alike seem to be operating under far different user manuals.

I’m probably too biased to examine the female side of the equation, but — men, I think you need to do better when it comes to approaching women and sustaining relationships with them.

Let’s explore how.

Don’t treat social media like a dating app.

You see it all the time on Twitter where people — especially women — state it outright in their profiles that they have a No-DM rule. If you cross that line, prepare for a block-and-run.

I didn’t think much of this tendency until someone mesaged me on Twitter, seemingly innocuous but…

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Jillian Spiridon
Jillian Spiridon

Written by Jillian Spiridon

just another writer with too many cats

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